Whether or not you ask for advice and how you accept advice when it is given is a great predictor of your future. Those who are reluctant to ask for advice or are resistant when it is given are likely to have a poor future.

Have you ever had the experience where someone really gets under your skin? Perhaps it is a work colleague, a person in your social set, or maybe a family member. What is the best way to deal with this unpleasant situation?

Do you have trouble at work? I mean, are you distracted, or find it hard to sit still in one place for very long? Are you disorganized? Do you just find yourself very unhappy or even failing at the career you have chosen? If you have adult ADD, this scenario could easily be the case.

Are you short for month at the end of each month? Do you have 5-10 credit cards, all maxed out to the limit? Do you forget to pay your bills on time? If you have answered, "Yes," to any of these questions, don't feel bad. Most people with ADD can't control money. But don't worry...

The most important thing to remember when asking these questions is to focus on the positive and stay from asking WHY? Why-type questions tend to evoke too much unnecessary analysis, feelings of guilt and self-blame.

I have heard this way too many times. I have heard it from every type of a coach. Many life, career and business coaches who have been in business for some time have told me that they are not actively marketing their business. When I ask why not, it seems that they are waiting for something to happen before they can start marketing their business online: